1.An honest profile
- Upload photos of yourself taken within the last two years. No heavy retouching, group photos or pictures of public figures.
- State your age, marital history, children, faith, education and occupation truthfully. If they differ from your documents, verification is refused and sanctions may follow.
- If you are preparing for baptism, say so. Preparing is not a problem in itself.
- Write your introduction in your own words. Do not include contact details or social handles.
2.Respectful conversation
- Read the profile and write your first message to that person specifically. At least 20 characters.
- Decline briefly, and only once. Decline reasons are never shown to the other person, so choose honestly.
- If someone does not reply or declines, do not contact them elsewhere or press them for reasons.
- No comments on appearance, age, job or wealth, no sexual content, and no pressuring for informal speech.
- Keep what you learn about someone in conversation private.
3.Marriage in mind
Ojakgyo is not a dating app. Rather than keeping light conversations going with many people at once, we encourage getting to know a few people seriously. That is why requests are limited to 3 a day and every request must include a message. If you are already in a relationship or not looking to marry, please set your visibility to Hidden or delete your account.
4.Respect for faith
- Sabbath practice, diet and church roles differ from person to person. Respect what is written in the profile and do not pressure anyone to change in conversation.
- Doctrinal debates and criticism of specific churches, pastors or institutions do not belong here.
- Disparaging other denominations or religions is prohibited.
- No soliciting for mission support, offerings or organizational membership in any form.
5.Each other's privacy
- Do not screenshot or share another member's profile, photos or messages outside the Service—including sending a photo to church friends to ask whether they know the person.
- Do not store or pass on a legal name or contact details learned after connecting.
- Do not try to find social accounts the other person has not shared.
- When a relationship ends, delete the photos and contact details you received.
6.Not allowed
- False information, using others' photos or documents, impersonation
- Use by people who are married or in a relationship
- Asking for money, goods or investment; scams; advertising; sales
- Sexual content or requests, asking for private photos
- Threats, harassment, stalking, discriminatory remarks
- Putting contact details in your profile text or messages to bypass review
- Sending the same message to many people
- Multiple accounts, or re-registering after a sanction
7.Reports and enforcement
Ojakgyo runs without staff in the loop. Profile review is automated and rule-based; document verification is an automated pre-check followed by the operator. Conversations are not monitored continuously; the operator reviews records only when a report is filed.
- Step 1, warning: minor violations. Notice with a request to fix the content
- Step 2, suspension: repeated violations, harassment or requests for money. Login blocked for a period and profile hidden
- Step 3, termination: serious violations such as fake profiles, stolen photos, scams or use by married people. Account deleted and re-registration blocked
A sanctioned member may respond by email at [email protected]. The identity of a reporter is never disclosed to the reported person.