1.Before you meet
- Use in-app messaging only at first. Share contact details when you have talked enough and feel ready. If the other person pushes to move fast, that itself is a signal.
- Check their verification badges. If baptism or ID is not verified, it is fine to ask why.
- Church name and conference can be checked through mutual acquaintances. The SDA community is small enough that this is not hard.
- Watch whether the profile and the conversation match. If age, occupation or marital history keep shifting, report it.
- One video call lets you confirm that the photos match the person.
2.The first meeting
- Meet in daylight, in a busy public place. A cafe or restaurant works well; avoid their home or car.
- Tell family or a friend who you are meeting, when and where, and check in afterwards.
- Arrange your own transport. It is fine to decline a ride or an offer to take you home the first time.
- No alcohol. If you left your drink unattended, order a new one.
- If you feel uncomfortable, you can leave without explaining why.
- Do not show valuables or your ID.
3.Requests for money
If anyone asks for money, gift cards, bank details, investment, a loan or a guarantee for any reason, do not comply and report immediately. The more convincing the story—an emergency, hospital bills, a plane ticket, business capital, mission support—the more careful you should be. The Ojakgyo operator will never ask a member for a personal transfer.
4.Personal information and photos
- Never send your home address, workplace address, ID, bank account or passwords.
- Do not send private photos. If asked, decline and report if needed.
- Do not screenshot or share another member's profile, photos or messages outside the Service. You receive the same protection.
- If you linked a social account, review what is public there. Social links are shown only to connected members.
5.Using your church community
When a relationship becomes serious, tell your pastor or a trusted elder and seek their counsel. If you have mutual acquaintances at the other person's church, you can check naturally. Within the SDA community, this kind of confirmation is a strong safeguard.
6.Reporting and blocking
- Use the More menu on a profile or in a conversation to Report or Block.
- Blocking quietly ends any pending request or connection and hides your profiles from each other. The other person is not told.
- Choose a reason—fake profile, does not seem SDA, harassment, money or scam, appears married or attached, other—and describe what happened.
- Reports are reviewed by the operator and handled with a warning, suspension or termination. The reporter is never revealed.
- For urgent threats or crimes, contact the police first (112 in Korea), then let us know at [email protected].
7.Emergency contacts (Korea)
- Police 112
- Women's Emergency Hotline 1366 (24 hours, violence and stalking)
- Cybercrime report ecrm.police.go.kr · 182
- Ojakgyo operator [email protected] · 070-4769-0213
Members living outside Korea should use their local emergency numbers.